Just some advice. Find some one positive to talk to. Some one who will tell you the truth, some one who is bias, and never go to one of your ex's for support, that would be the worst you can do for yourself. You will only be feeding off of their anger towards the person. My ex did that. And you know all they will tell you is what you want to hear and not what you need to hear. Ok , best of luck too all of you.