First of all, I've never had intercourse with a woman. Can't say I'm a virgin or haven't fooled around once or twice in my life, but by and large I've avoided sex and the one time I had an opportunity where a woman practically begged me to, I didn't want to nor had the capability at that moment. I performed oral sex but only under pressure.
I'm more affection oriented than most men. I'd rather show affection to a woman than have sex. (hugs, kisses, cuddling, massage, no sexual caresses, spooning etc )
I just wanted to get a woman's opinion on if this type of inclination is a turn off. I also tend to be quite intellectual and I do have a playful side that does come out occasionally.....but us nerdy engineer types don't socialize all that well.
So maybe my question is twofold.....how women feel about the affection oriented man and the man who tends to be intellectual and not as outgoing as other social types.
Probably the two inclinations go hand in hand....although i have seen lot's of engineers that are also sexaholics who could care less about affection unless it helps them get laid. |
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